X-Message-Number: 20960 Date: Fri, 24 Jan 2003 11:22:41 -0700 Subject: Right Livelihood (was Re: CAN AN IMMORTALIST HAVE A LIFE?) References: <> From: (Tim Freeman) I'm a bit behind on my email, as you can see, but this is still worth paying attention to: >Message #20742 >Date: Tue, 31 Dec 2002 00:56:33 +1100 >From: Philip Rhoades <> >Subject: CAN AN IMMORTALIST HAVE A LIFE? >The end result of Snags One and Two is that you end up being very >boring because you don't do much of what normal people call "fun" i.e. >You don't have a life. Normal people are often quite tedious. I don't think it is worthwhile to try to live in a way they would appreciate. I do think it's worthwhile for *you* to develop a way to live that *you* approve of. I haven't achieved this yet, but I can easily see a number of ways I've moved closer during the past few years. If the next piece of software I write is as marketable as I hope, then I might feel that I've had some success at finding a way of living that I like. The idea that "right livelihood" is necessary for emotional equilibrium has been known for a long time. It's part of the Buddha's eightfold path. I don't aspire to achieve freedom from suffering, so I'm not Buddhist. However, pointless suffering is worth eliminating so IMO it's worthwhile to pay some attention to his advice. I do not think this has much to do with life extension, unless your desires contribute directly to your demise. If you decide that "having a life" means doing Russian Roulette demonstrations, you need to either give up on life extension or change your mind about what it means to have a life. >With respect to the Second Snag and ignoring the First Snag: Extending >one's current life is not easy. You need to keep up with all the >different research that is going on in all sorts of different areas >that affect aging. Like nutrition advice, there is conflicting >scientific evidence about what we should be doing. You need to read a >lot, post lots of emails on appropriate mailing lists, persuade family >and friends to join the cause while still working to pay the rent and >studying etc. I don't think it has to take that much time. Find a few things that are obviously worth doing, and do them consistently. The doing is more important than the finding, and also more difficult. There are enough obvious things to do that you don't have to spend a lot of time optimizing the finding. At the moment I do: cryonics, mild calorie restriction (slow weight loss is in progress), daily ordinary multivitamins, and excercise to the point where I know from experience that more exercise will result in overtraining. It takes about 2.5 hours/week. In my experience, trying hard to persuade family and friends isn't worth the trouble. It is vital, however, to select family and friends who don't block your goals. I'm on my second marriage so I'm not kidding about selecting a family. Several years after the change I'm still glad I did it. >Firstly, according to my part-time partner (full-time is >too much hard work) I am full of internal contradictions and she says I >am bordering on obsessive compulsive disorder. >I work strange (IT) hours; I slave over a hot computer all night; I >watch Star Trek and then channel-flick until the sun comes up; I don't >eat much junk food but I should eat more vegies and fruit; I have a >fridge full of food supplements that I forget to take most of the >time; I am burnt out by the weekend and sleep for most of it; my >partner calls me a "Westie" made good who is camping in a luxury unit. Obsessive compulsive disorder is washing your hands 40 times a day, or being unable to travel away from your house because you're never certain enough that you locked the front door. Forgetting to take your supplements is different from being obsessive-compulsive. Either there is something important that you didn't list, or it's better to negotiate with your partner about the behaviors of yours she wants to control without using the "obsessive compulsive" label. There are good drugs for real obsessive-compulsive disorder, BTW. I find that I feel better when I have stable sleeping habits. Strange hours aren't bad, AFAIK, so long as it's the same strange hours from one day to the next. People who do shift work with regularly changing shifts have an increased risk of heart disease. Sudden cardiac death usually leads to poor suspensions. I watch an occasional videotape, but not any network TV. I used to watch Star Trek but it doesn't do it for me any more; after reading enough Vinge and Egan the Star Trek plots seem pointless. My dad does not own a TV because he knows he's vulnerable to TV addiction. People who have TIVO's seem to like them. I don't know what you should do about TV viewing interfering with your sleep, but be aware there are alternatives. Time for lunch. I'm hungry. Gotta go. :-). -- Tim Freeman GPG public key fingerprint ECDF 46F8 3B80 BB9E 575D 7180 76DF FE00 34B1 5C78 Rate This Message: http://www.cryonet.org/cgi-bin/rate.cgi?msg=20960